Trieva was an amazing person. She was the finest, most kind, most compassionate person I ever knew (I’m 64, and she was 56.) She was loved by all who knew her, and were touched by her amazing smile and personality. She was a great wife and mother, and a great friend to MANY! (I had several women tell me that Trieva was their BEST FRIEND. I know her best friend, and circle of good friends. These women weren’t in this group… Yet, Trieva always managed to make others feel special. She treated them like best friends! She cared about them, and it showed! She was active in her church, and was known as someone you could go to for help, advice, or just a hug. She was an Occupational Therapist, and worked with autistic and learning disabled children…. I met some of the parents of “her children”, the day of her organ donation, at the Honor Walk… They all spoke glowingly of her, saying that she had bonded with their child like no other Therapist had ever done. They all spoke through tears… Trieva was loved, and gave love… for her last days, friends traveled from Florida, Utah, Washington, DC, and from MD, and around North Carolina…
We will be spreading her ashes in a ceremony at the beach in a couple weeks. We expect there to be as many as 50 people attending… One traveling from Denver, Colorado… Trieva was loved, and nearly every day, I run into someone I don’t know, who has a story of something selfless and kind Trieva did for them… And she never spoke, even to me, of these things. Her loving, good deeds, were kept between herself, the individual she was helping, and God. She never sought credit …
She was an exemplary wife, and mother. She and I were together 35 years, and married for 33 years. I will never marry again. It wouldn’t be fair, because no other woman I’ve ever met, or will meet, would compare well with her. (She would tell you otherwise, but that would just be her, being modest.)
Finally, she had an amazing sense of humor, was always smiling her fantastic smile, always finding the positive… Loving her friends and family. And she had a great love for God, and Jesus. She was such an amazing woman.
My sister loved music and enjoyed sunny beach days-so it is only fitting to sing: “I can see clearly now…the rain is gone…it is going to be a bright sun shiny day.” Johnny Nash.
As her life came to an end after a year long of chemo treatments the sun was shining through by the Miracles In Sight. I was thrilled and proud of my sister Allison Wiltse for making a decision on her drivers’s license to be a donor. So, at the moment of darkness came a blue sky knowing the she will help another human being.
The donation process made me feel so happy that Allison could make a big impact on another person’s life. She always responded and reached out to people in need by giving to various organizations. Allison did this whole heartedly even as she had very little money.
Allison Wiltse worked hard, adored her dogs, and cooking. She was often building her own recipes and hosting Sunday night dinners. Allison spoiled her dogs by buying treats even though she had no income. The dogs were companions to the bitter end of her life by hovering over her as she was in pain from the cancer.
So, Allison can make it now the pain is gone. Look around nothing but blue sky! Allison’s donation has made it so somebody else can look around…and it will be a bright sun shiny day because she made the donation to Miracles In Sight.
Rose passed away on December 5, 2023, at the age of 45. Rose was very vibrant and filled the room with her big smile and laughter. Rose was a loving, trusting, and a giving person who was always ready to give you a big hug.
Rose’s favorite role in life was being a “Boy Mom”. A mother to six wonderful, sweet boys from 4 to 26 years. Rose loved her boys, her life, and her job in the justice system. Rose was devoted to her Catholic faith and lead others to Christ.
Rose was the youngest of six siblings. She had a big family and many friends who loved her and her boys. She invested in people and took the time to know them, love them and pray for them.
She worked hard for many years and was so happy when she purchased her own home a few years ago.
Rose lived life to the fullest and always looked for the good in people.
She is deeply missed by her boys, her mother, siblings and many other friends and family.
Barry and I were each other’s first loved going back to 7th grade. God saw fit to finally reunite us about 3 years ago. He told everyone we were a fairytale. Barry had a beautiful heart. He was also a talented artist and musician. I felt loved every day. And I miss him so much.
I am grateful for the gift of sight and for individuals making the decision to donate life. My vision has been corrected with glasses since the age of 5. While a senior in nursing school I began to have headaches and a decrease in visual acuity that could that required special lenses in my glasses to correct my vision. My optometrist diagnosed me with Keratoconus, a disease that causes the cornea to become cone-shaped. After graduating from nursing school and 2 years into my career I began to have problems reading normal handwriting, increase in headaches and problems while driving.
My doctor referred me to an ophthalmologist who informed me I had to be placed on a waiting list for a cornea. Thankfully that wait was short lived. In less than a week and the day before Thanksgiving I received my first cornea. An officer that was killed in the line of duty was a donor and a year younger than myself. I will never be able to thank his family enough for honoring his wishes. Five years later I had to receive my second transplant due the disease progression in my non-transplanted cornea. I was able to schedule surgery due to the increase in the number of donors. This all began 23 years ago and my corneas are great and my vision is corrected with glasses. Without the “gift” from donors I would not have been able to fulfill my life time dream of being a nurse. Thanks to all the donors and for their families making sure their wishes are fulfilled.
Jerome Wheeler, MIS Surgical Recovery Specialist, has quite a connection to eye donation and corneal transplantation. Jerome’s daily work is recovering corneal tissue needed for transplant. The gift of sight was, and continues to be a very personal journey for Jerome and his family.
“In 1999, Dr. Terry Kim, Professor of Ophthalmology at Duke University Eye Center told my wife and I that our son, Shane, would be the youngest patient to receive corneal transplant surgery…at 6 days old, Shane’s vision was saved.”
Now, seventeen years later, Shane’s transplant has lasted longer than 90% of patients at Duke University Eye Center! The entire Wheeler family, especially Shane, is looking forward to continued success with this very special gift.
“I am grateful and honored to be part of the system that saved my son’s vision. And I truly believe that my continued service here has a Spiritual impact on the great success/progress my son has experienced.”